Sometimes I’m not surprised why I don’t have a boyfriend, let alone a husband. I can see how I might seem demanding to some.

• I’ve discussed how some guys don’t appreciate my mad fighting skills.
• I’ve mentioned the fact that I want to be addressed as Dr & Mr Tonia hahaha.
• There’s been Surprise I’m Single Parts I and II.
• We can go way back to suggestions on how to date me for an Ignite presentation.
• And don’t forget my infamous “Set me up or shut up” policy.

In the end I really just don’t want an asshat and I’m not sure why that’s such a bit deal.

However now we can add something else to my list. I think though rather than this being an addition, this is something that displays all the qualities if someone I’m looking for. A guy that’s a little pretentious but not an asshat. Someone that I can enjoy a PBR with one minute and a great wine the next. A guy that will watch football with me. Someone that’s not afraid to learn and try new things. Someone that’s not afraid of my independence. A guy that’s not bothered that I’m smart and I have a career.

And the best of all… a guy that’s not afraid to dance. Not even in this situation. Know a single man like this in Phoenix? Send him my way