While this might not be a new philosophy, it’s one that has come out and punched me in the face lately.

It’s pretty easy to figure out and shouldn’t take that much explaining.

While it would be nice to be dating, it’s not the first thing I think of every day when I wake up. However, I do get reminders from my friends and acquaintances that I am not dating as well as teasing remarks when I am headed out with one of my good guy friends.

Additionally, I haven’t exactly had the best dating record. At all. Not really sure I trust myself to even find anyone at this point.

It’s not that I don’t want to. It’s just that it’s not on the top of my list.

So, instead of constantly asking me why I’m not dating anyone and/or assuming all my guy friends are guys I am dating, I am giving everyone a challenge:

Set me up.

My friends should know me as well, if not better, than myself.

Ready. Set. Go.

The end.